爱的姿态：低到尘埃还是高到云端

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爱的姿态：低到尘埃还是高到云端
爱上一个人，一百个女人会有一百种姿态，有张爱玲式的变得很长期玩游戏会不会诱发白癜风发生低很低，低到尘埃，有林微因式的矜持高傲，高到云端，有陆小曼式的任性男性白癜风治疗有什么优势胡非，索取无度，有请问白癜风患者在北京哪购买铜餐具杨绛式的呵护深爱，亦妻亦母。亦有赵四小姐式的生死依托，无怨无悔。其中张爱玲与林微因绝然相反的姿态，可谓是经典。情窦初开的林微因始终没有被诗人火一般的热情融化，沉醉中始终保持一份难得的清醒与矜持。而张爱玲低到尘埃的爱情并未因为她的卑微与付出开花结果，反而换来的是累累伤痕。更成为她一生挥之不去的噩梦。相比之下，在男人心目中高据云端的林微因享尽男人的呵护与宠爱。
张爱玲的婚姻苦果，与其说是因为遇人不淑，不如说是缺乏选择的智慧。久经情场的胡兰成略施小计，便让几面之缘，几次欢谈的张爱玲视为知音，芳心大动。可这才子可是一个品性肮脏不堪的人渣。好色滥情，用红楼梦里贾母的话来说就是香的臭的都往屋里拉的下流胚子。就是这样一个花花公子，张爱玲竟然如一只扑火的飞蛾，爱得如痴如醉，为他堕胎，给钱让他养家糊口，甚至得知他爱上另一个女子时，要求他做出爱的选择。想成为一个成性的男人爱的唯一，无异于是与虎谋皮。林微因遇到徐志摩，谈了一场刻骨铭心、轰轰烈烈的恋爱，可聪慧的林微因明白，为了追求自己而抛妻弃子，将家庭责任抛之脑后的浪漫诗人，怎么能够托付终生。无论是人品不堪的胡兰成，还是热情如火的徐志摩，都不是合适的丈夫人选。张爱玲爱上胡兰成，林微因遇到徐志摩，都一样是劫不是缘。张爱玲倾情投入，林微因抽身而退，同样遇人不淑，张爱玲难逃劫难，林微因却潇洒转身。
张爱玲爱上一个不该爱的人，已经为悲剧婚姻迈出了错误一步。更大的错在于她在爱情中低到尘埃的卑微心态。身为名门之后，才女作家，恋爱中的张爱玲一改平素的高傲冷漠，如仕妾般低眉顺眼，为了取悦胡兰成，付出金钱，丧失尊严。莫说是胡兰成这种阅人无数的情场浪子，就是痴情专情的金岳霖，恐怕对这样毫无矜持、爱到丧失尊严的女子，恐怕也会索然无味。恋爱是一门技术活，是一场男女间的较量，男人血液里的野性与雄性激素，决定了恋爱中的男人渴望征服，越是难于追到，高踞云端的女人，越容易激起他们的热情。徐志摩、金岳霖对林微因爱慕一生，固然有林微因的才华与美貌因素，更主要的是因为情商颇高的林微因懂得如何掌控男人，在他们心目保持着女神的姿态，而不是烟火人间的女子。这样的女人最容易激活男人的征服欲望，让他们热血沸腾，欲罢不能。
一份耕耘一份收获这样的规律不适合爱情，而低到尘埃的爱情很多时候就像风险投资，投入巨大，可能。当年香港笑星肥肥爱上英俊潇洒的郑少秋，为了赢得帅哥的爱，肥肥忍辱负重，为郑少秋的事业马前鞍后出力。郑少秋一句生不出孩子就离婚的狠话，让肥肥不顾自己疾病缠身，冒险生下孩子。结果呢，倾情付出，得到的是孩子还未满月，孩子她爸就移情别恋的回报。
爱情有如双人舞，需要双方默契配合，用心去跳，才能跳出和谐的舞步。而低到尘埃的爱，却是一个人在独舞，无论如何投入，付出心血,都是寂寞的独舞。
低到尘埃的张爱玲就像童话故事里的人鱼公主，爱到自残自虐，失去自我甚至性命，最终还是以悲剧收场。所以，聪明的女人无论以何种姿态去爱男人，前提首先是自爱。　        





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